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Gemmy | Is this something that happens to women with this rising sign or would it be something else in the chart? I'm a nice person but people tend to avoid me. Example:I was on my way to the supermarket with two of my sisters when we ran into my other sisters boyfriend.He said hi and gave them both a kiss on the cheek.He completely avoided me.And this happens all the time.It makes me feel bad. |
StarlightSmileSupreme | That's too bad, Gemmy, it would hurt my feelings too though I try not to show it or be bothered by it. It could just be he doesn't know you as well as the others or maybe he thinks you don't want that kind of closeness? Sometimes, it's just a misunderstanding. You might say, "hey I want a hug, too" and see if this helps. He might hug you then, and every time after. If you are honest about how you feel, not hide it, people will respond. Sometimes, Capricorn is all about remaining too stoic (it's the opposite sign, Cancer, which is known for being emotionally honest and demonstrative.) |
Gemmy | It bothers me,but I'm shy,so I'm not really good at telling anyone anything. This happens with a lot of people.The only people that are comfortable with me,are older women.So maybe it is a Cap thing. |
Jessica2407 | I wouldn't feel bad. why do you feel bad? BTW am cap rising too. |
Gemmy | I think it kind of just makes me question whether I'm likeable or not.99 percent of the time I like when people leave me alone.But it's rude to greet everyone in a room but one person. |
k e p h x i | I have a friend who has a Cap Rising. She KNOWS she's very unapproachable. She hates talking about relationships, but because it's a sensitive topic for her. I think she's beautiful and she has a rocking body, but she hates herself so-so-so much. It breaks my heart. She's a Virgo with a Cap Rising and a Pisces Moon. Just saying: Lunar Pisceans are so underrated. ------------------ So, if you're a straight Scorpio it's called blunt, but if you're a gay Scorpio it's called sass!? Um, excuse me - no. |
iliketurtles | hm thats weird..maybe he secretly fancies you i'm a cap rising. i look serious and kind of grumpy look about me i'm definatley happy, just minding my own business. people don't warm to me unless i smile at them straight away or talk to them first. it is annoying but i don't think walking around with a fixed smiles on our faces would make it any better ha |
Gemmy | quote: Originally posted by k e p h x i: Just saying: Lunar Pisceans are so underrated.
My niece has a Pisces Moon.She has big eyes with really long lashes.She's the cutest thing. quote: people don't warm to me unless i smile at them straight away or talk to them first. it is annoying but i don't think walking around with a fixed smiles on our faces would make it any better ha.
Yeah,we'd probably come across as a little crazy.
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Jessica2407 | quote: Originally posted by Gemmy: I think it kind of just makes me question whether I'm likeable or not.99 percent of the time I like when people leave me alone.But it's rude to greet everyone in a room but one person.
May be he wants you to ask him about it.
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Gemmy | It's just when people first meet me.Then they don't have a problem greeting me.But I know I'm not approachable.People tend to be awkward and uncomfortable around me.Eh,it's ok,I'm used to it. Just wondering if other female Cap risers experience this also. |
Jessica2407 | Yeah I do. But I like it. I prefer to initiate contact,then am all leo-ish |
Mystic Melody | Cap rising with Cap moon... but Libra sun! (But my sun is in the 8th so that makes me extra scary.) I understand completely. I used to have low self esteem and think everyone thought I was too geeky to speak to etc. (Mars in Aqua... I'm weird) and then I embraced my inner 8th house ***** goddess toward the end of high school (***** appear because I said the B word. naughty moderator lol) and after that, I decided people were intimidated, and finally I learned astrology and found out I am just unapproachable energetically. Even when Libra is shining out, some people will think I am not being sincere because of the Saturn domination the rest of the time. I will catch a glance at myself in a mirror and see that my face actually LOOKS GRUMPY WHEN I AM ACTUALLY PERFECTLY CONTENT!!! I am totally Grumpy Cat. I just look intimidating and/or grumpy even when I am basically happy! I have learned to accept this and play on it when it serves me. You walk into a bar and see that ice princess sitting by herself with perfect confidence and poise... rebuffing obnoxious suitors with nothing more than a withering glance? That's me. That girl in the park all by herself who is perfectly content with her book, sitting on blanket among the trees? That's me too. People who care enough to look beyond the surface find a deep, loving, and loyal person. People who don't... get The Stare. I do make an extra effort for family and loved ones, because I know that I must. You will learn to do the same. Just know that they will not understand nor appreciate your extra effort and will actually think you are NOT trying most of the time, even when you know that you are trying ten times harder than they are, but you are too classy to throw a fit about it to their face. (You save your frustration throw-ups for your astrological friends who understand. lolol) |
Hera | Yeah. I am unapproachable and PREFER it that way. I don't know if I look grumpy.. I guess I might! But meh.. would I really want all the creepsters and weirdos and whatnot coming over to make silly conversations, on a regular basis?! Heck, NO!!! And the immature girls, talking about yadda-yadda. Ugh. No. I've been told I have no social skills. It's not true actually. I have no time for BS (Aries Sun, Mercury and Mars add harshness to the grumpiness lol) and don't want to waste my time "socializing" unless I seriously believe I have an amazing creature in front of me. Oh yeah, and I guess that makes me an elitist! So be it. I prefer "selective" but it's just the same. I guess one way I can sum up my attitude is I am not into idle socializing. |
Gemmy | I do agree with everyone,I like to be left alone most of the time.And I'm not good at small talk either,I SUCK at it.It could be that my Asc and Gem placements are quincunx.The Gem in me would like to be sociable but my Cap rising and Saturn in the 11th wanna just be.Overall, I like being unapproachable. |